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The days we passed together

The days we passed together

Recalling the days we have passed together for more than 20 years, I feel particularly warm and sweet. The first time you broke into my life, you seemed to be in front of me…… The first time causal meeting was in May, 1996. It was a summer breeze night. As soon as I came back from the construction site, my colleagues invited me to dance in the urban construction College. When I stepped into the ballroom, under the dim and gentle neon lights, your fresh and refined image was deeply embedded in my heart at once.

I remember that in college, Li Chunbo’s song “Xiaofang” resounded through the campus. The village girl named Xiaofang was deeply branded into my heart and became my idol when I was a teenager. For more than 20 years, I have been looking forward to finding a beautiful and kind girl with a pair of beautiful big eyes and two thick braids as my lover, but it is hard to find her. Who knows that people are looking for her QbAidu. Suddenly looking back, the man is in the dim light…… You suddenly appeared in front of me like this. At that time, you were dancing with a female classmate in a light green shirt, with two thick and long braids shaking deftly behind you. At the end of the song, I rushed to your side to ask you to dance. At that time, I was not very good at dancing. Fortunately, it was a slow four dance music, so I didn’t make a fool of myself. Holding you for a stroll in the ballroom, because I was very excited and afraid of stepping on your feet when I was not familiar with the dance steps, my eyes were always staring at my feet and I dared not look at your eyes; It was very difficult to calm my mood and strike up a conversation with you, only then did I find out that you were a student of the education college, and the dance music was over. The dance music behind is either that I can’t dance or that your “annoying” female classmate took the lead. There is no chance to dance with you again, but my heart has been completely taken away by you. When my colleague Zhou Yun saw that I was no longer dancing and worried, he asked me why. After knowing my heart, he volunteered to invite your classmates to invite you to dance. But I didn’t expect that my colleague’s “bald head” would scare you away and let the first meeting arranged by God pass us like this.

After that day, your voice, face and smile often linger in my mind, and I always look forward to meeting you again. As long as the ballroom of urban construction College is open, I will wait and go for a walk in your college alone. I only hope to have the chance to meet you again, but the vast sea of people has never seen you…… By the second meeting, it was already autumn. I remember that day was September 25, 1996. After dinner with my colleagues, I took a shower of cool autumn wind, walked through the back mountain of urban construction College, stepped into the familiar ballroom, under the dim and gentle neon lights, I saw your fresh and refined beauty again. Once again, I had the honor to dance with you, but I still didn’t have the courage to ask your name, let alone express my missing feelings to you, for fear that my sudden appearance would scare you away again. When the dance broke up, I regretted that I didn’t have the courage to ask your contact information. I don’t know when the next meeting will be? From the first time we met, I firmly believed that we must have a fate in our previous life, and you are my lover in this life. God has created the opportunity for us to meet again, that is, to renew our love. I make up my mind to find you……

In the evening of the next day, I lingered at the gate of your college for a long time with the moon cakes distributed by the unit, preparing to give them to you, but I didn’t know where to find you. There happened to be a single girl passing by me. I gathered up my courage to ask her, but I only knew that you were in Chinese department, wearing two braids and a light green shirt, other information is unknown. Thanks to this classmate named Wen Wei, she didn’t laugh at me for being stupid. Instead, she took me to every girls’ dormitory of your department to inquire about which girl often tied two braids. I asked many dormitories, but I didn’t find the person I was looking. Maybe it was a God’s will. I suddenly saw a light green shirt hanging in the corridor was so familiar. My intuition told me that the owner of this shirt was the person I was looking. But the owner of the shirt was not there. He only knew the name of the owner of the shirt was Zhou Yan. I don’t know if I find the right person, just put the moon cakes I brought on your bedside…… As soon as the long National Day holiday ended, I couldn’t wait to find you. When I walked to the door of your dormitory, I called Zhou Yan gently. As soon as you turned back, I knew, my intuition is right.

At that time, you were 20 years old. It was the age of blooming like flowers. There were many handsome suitors around you. Although I went to see you when I was free, I never dared to express to you rashly, I can only bury my love for you deeply in my heart. Until one day, I saw a boy holding your hand in the school of urban construction. I felt like a dead heart suddenly, thinking that it was difficult for me to continue to advance with you in this life. In order to relieve my sadness, I invited a family visit for the first time, just to stay away from you and forget you, but your figure is like a shadow and can never linger in my mind……

The family visit was over. As soon as I returned to the unit, my colleague told me that a girl with two braids came to me during the leave, which made me rekindle the hope of love. I know, you also have me in your heart. At the New Year’s party, I went to see you perform. With the sweet song song song, you danced happily with your classmates. The lyrics sang, “the girl here is waiting for you to come, waiting for you to come” seems that you are calling me and encouraging me to express my love to you. After the party, I finally expressed my love to you.

Because of love, the future life will be very fast. Although the days of love are also a little bumpy, because I can always admit mistakes in time, and there is a good friend Wang Feng’s clever mouth to mediate from them, our relationship is growing day by day, and I wish I could continue to repair Shimen-Changsha railway forever, let me stay with you forever. However, life always has waves. Because Wang Feng pursued his colleague Xiaoyu, and Xiaoyu was secretly the lover of the unit leader. Wang Feng became the target of the leader’s attack, and naturally I became a “class enemy” who was close to Wang Feng “, work is not satisfactory. Fortunately, because I worked hard at ordinary times, I was affirmed by the superior leadership and promoted to be the technical director of the six teams. I had to leave you and go to work in Qu county, Sichuan province thousands of miles away. At this time, you graduated from university and became a middle school teacher. Although we are far away from thousands of mountains and rivers, our hearts are tightly connected, and the telephone has become the best way for us to tell each other. In February 1999, we held a simple wedding in Kaili, Guizhou, without wedding dress, firecrackers, relatives from both sides, and a brick and a half tile to shelter you from the wind and rain, the wedding room is a simple bamboo shed on the construction site. The only thing I have is the blessing of colleagues on the construction site. In retrospect, I still feel that I owe you a lot.

Because of the working relationship, we get together less and more, but as long as you have a holiday, you will go to the construction site to join me. On May 16, 2000, our love crystallization was finally born. We have a lovely son, so that you can bear the heavy burden of child care alone after work. During that time, you lost a lot of weight and grew older, but you never complained to me, let alone distracted me from work.

The life of the construction unit is home and wandering everywhere. In order to give you and your children a stable home, I gave up the position of chief engineer of the project of the construction unit, I was transferred to my hometown after more than ten years as an engineer. My position is gone and my salary is reduced. Compared with my classmates in college, I once felt lost, but you never felt wronged following me. In your eyes, although your husband is not an official and has no money, you always think that your husband is talented and the best. Because of your tolerance, I started from ordinary engineers, and my career began to have a new improvement. Finally, we have our own house and welcome our own home.

On June 21, 2005, we got the joy of love again, and our second son was born. With an extra mouth to eat, our economic pressure will also increase. At this time, our eldest son is also in junior high school. Due to the unbalanced development of educational resources, the quality of secondary school education in our jurisdiction is very poor. If children are to receive good secondary school education, they have to spend money on school district housing, but our economic ability is limited, I can only transfer my eldest son back to my hometown to study in middle school. At this time, the eldest son was in the rebellious period, and his grandparents still adopted the traditional education method of beating and scolding, which caused obstacles in his mind. In order to make our eldest son healthy physically and mentally, we had to move our family back to our hometown county. From then on, you gave up your beloved job as a teacher and worked as a housewife attentively. Due to your efforts, my son successfully passed the rebellious period, became lively and cheerful, and became a sunshine boy again. His little son also achieved excellent results, what is more gratifying is that my picky parents finally accepted you and regarded you as their own daughter, making our family full of happiness and warmth everywhere.

20 years of ups and downs, because of you, let me Harvest Love; Because of you, let me feel the warmth of home; For our home, you gave up your career, he became a housewife with a husband and son. In the past 20 years, you have sometimes complained that I am an engineering student who doesn’t understand romance. In fact, although I don’t have sweet words, I have been using actions to interpret the romance of my life-that is, getting old slowly with you, until the old man can’t go anywhere, you are still the treasure in my hand……

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